Welcome to Boudoir Banter

Unfiltered. Unexpected. Unapologetically You.

Hello,

I’m so glad you found your way here. Boudoir Banter is where we talk about the things that too often go unsaid—especially for women over 50. The hard stuff. The juicy stuff. The “is-it-just-me?” stuff. Spoiler: It’s not just you.

I created this space because after decades of being the caregiver, the cheerleader, the doer-of-all-the-things, I realized I had a whole world of thoughts, questions, and desires that had been locked away. And I wasn’t alone.

This newsletter is for women who are:

• In transition (divorce, empty nest, rediscovery)

• Craving real conversation, not curated perfection

• Ready to stop performing and start feeling

• Curious about sex, identity, aging, freedom, and what’s next

Every week, I write about things like:

• Painful sex (and what no one tells you about it)

• Rediscovering pleasure—emotional, physical, and spiritual

• The chaos behind our closets (and what it really represents)

• Marriage, motherhood, memory, and midlife awakenings

No filters. No faking. Just real, raw reflections from one woman who’s not afraid to crack open the taboo.

If you’re ready to feel more alive, more connected, and more you than ever before, you’re in the right place.

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Because your voice matters. Your pleasure matters.
You matter.

With spark + soul,
Alicia Berberich

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